Welcome to ArtSexTherapy's Victog'e (the video-picture-blog), home of everything SEX.....educational, fun, and provocative.
Friday, December 30, 2011
Wednesday, December 28, 2011
Monday, December 26, 2011
Sunday, December 25, 2011
Friday, December 23, 2011
Tenga 3D
A nice little X-mas gift for your lover...or Valentine's Day will be here before you know it: hint-hint. Looks fun, enjoy!
Talks on Becoming Vaginally Orgasmic....Hmmm
Please leave any and all comments if this works for you
Calling any/all Filmmakers
This was sent to me via email. If anyone is interested read what was enclosed:
"Hamburg and St. Pauli (a neighborhood in hamburg) are know for their red-light district which are a magnet for tourism.
In germany prostitution is legalized. Sex workers pay taxes, organize trade unions and have recourse for obtaining pending payments. Legally they are equal to all other service occupations.
(then some stuff about criminalization and political speech that i don't fully understand enough to give a good translation. then some stuff about underage sex workers who are at high risk because they're too young to join the trade organizations and thus aren't protected. then some stuff about infrastructure... and about repression. solidarity with sex workers and challenging the views on sex work etc.)
we are looking for films that are across the spectrum of genres; experimental/documentaries/fiction/activist shorts or feature length films"
SEX WORKER FILM FEST in GERMANY:
Please share with any filmmakers you know who might be interested. I've been working with Bildwechsel for the past 8 years, as their NYC "agent". They're a remarkable archive (largest women's art/film archive in the EU) and put on great film festivals!
The Sex Work Film Fest (SAFF) 2012 will take place in June in Hamburg, Germany. Im Juni 2012 findet das Hamburger Sex Arbeit Film Fest statt.
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Lessons on the Penis, Size, Hygiene, & More
Wish I went to a school like this. Just a FOREWARNING: these videos are graphic, but very educational.
Just learned something new, its girth, not length.
Kegels for men!
Just learned something new, its girth, not length.
Kegels for men!
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Marni on How to Talk to Women
Between practicing my school work and keeping an open ear to Marni, I realized that this video should be titled, How to Attract Women Who Like to Play Games, not What Women Want. Granted a lot of her advice makes sense, I can relate to some things, but not all. Me being me, yes, if I do not know you I cannot just open up to you and this goes around the board unless I've been drinking. Alcohol always makes me a tad bit more friendlier. Let me reiterate, Marni gives great advice, I just don't feel it appeals to the masses meaning everyone, only some. Every woman does not function this way; prime example, cultural differences. With every and anything, its all in chances hands. Whatever you do may or may not work and there is no correct way or simple answer. People are different, everyone functions differently. With that, it also depends on an individual's present circumstance and/or history (their past - experiences, etc.). Oh, let add, every women does not know what they want from a man, some are still learning, many are still learning.
Serious, Intense, yet Effective
This may end up being my daily routine. I've always told people you didn't need a gym in order to apply a health, efficient workout to your regiment.
Sex Workers Outreach Project (SWOP) @ Exxxotica 2011
Yay SWOP! I love the interview. When the schedule slows down I will be back at the meetings. Take care ladies and continue schooling the masses and protecting the rights people.
For more info about SWOP (click here)
SWOP also holds educational workshops. The next workshop is on Taxes 101, about understanding, preparing, and filing your taxes. The workshop is Jan. 4, 2012, 6:30 - 8:30pm. For more info and reservations: SWOP Educational Workshops
For more info about SWOP (click here)
SWOP also holds educational workshops. The next workshop is on Taxes 101, about understanding, preparing, and filing your taxes. The workshop is Jan. 4, 2012, 6:30 - 8:30pm. For more info and reservations: SWOP Educational Workshops
Heard About the Pep Fest Kissing
I am not sure about anyone else, but this grossed me out when I saw it on the news. If my father ever......ewwwwh!
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
More on Plan B: the Morning-After Pill
I have many thoughts on this. I agree and disagree. I wish people would stop saying teens need to be more responsible. Yes, the should, but lets remind ourselves that they are still kids. Parents want to know the every detail of their child's life, but realistically speaking ITS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. A teenager will keep the intimate details of their life to themselves. You are lucky if you have a teenager that feels comfortable with talking out these issues, that means you did something right. Lets be honest for a second, you probably didn't tell your parents all that was to tell of your teenage years.
Let me emphasize, Im not saying Plan B should be over the counter, but its availability should be on a confidentiality basis. An explanation of how Plan B works is most definitely important. With that said, I would say maybe you should fight to keep establishments like Planned Parenthood alive. Click here for previous Planned Parenthood post.
What do you rather...a teenage parent or a teenager that wants you to respect their privacy? Ummm, let me think about that???
Let me emphasize, Im not saying Plan B should be over the counter, but its availability should be on a confidentiality basis. An explanation of how Plan B works is most definitely important. With that said, I would say maybe you should fight to keep establishments like Planned Parenthood alive. Click here for previous Planned Parenthood post.
What do you rather...a teenage parent or a teenager that wants you to respect their privacy? Ummm, let me think about that???
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
Monday, December 5, 2011
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Have you ever opened your SPAM?
Well, I opened one of my spam letters and this is what was there.
I guess that's why they call it spam because I have no idea why someone would send such a random email to someone they don't even know. I'm still trying to figure out how they got my email in the first place. Hopefully someone else will enjoy this more than I.
I guess that's why they call it spam because I have no idea why someone would send such a random email to someone they don't even know. I'm still trying to figure out how they got my email in the first place. Hopefully someone else will enjoy this more than I.
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Monday, November 28, 2011
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Saturday, November 12, 2011
The Tenga Revisited
It's not new, but thought this video was so hot that I just had to revisit the experience. Enjoy
Friday, November 11, 2011
Brazilian Booty
Ok, so I kearned that a female who has butt injections looks good with clothes on, but when she wears a bikini ais appears as if her butt is split in half. What until summer rolls around again, I will be examining.
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Free Condom Key Chains
The Museum of Sex is having a little giveaway. Use this code CONKEYCH and get your very own:
The Museum of Sex Store
233 5th Ave. (& 27th St.)
Nyc 10016
Nyc 10016
Sun - Thu: 10am - 8pm
Fri - Sat: 10am - 9pm
212.689.6337
212.689.6337
Tuesday, November 8, 2011
Saturday, November 5, 2011
US Navy Teaches Sex Hygiene
This is very detailed and GRAPHIC, but EXTREMELY informative. More men should want to be as careful. Quote: "Use your common sense, for no one will help you if you do not help yourself."
Strip Search Gone Wrong
Bad bad bad. I remember this. This is hard to watch because this could happen to anyone. I wonder what happened in this case.
Just Learned Rachel was on HBO's Real Sex
Could not find Rachel's episode :( On the upside of things, I miss Babeland's workshops. Its been so long since I've attended one. Must add to schedule.
For those who don't know her:
For those who don't know her:
Marni the WingGirl w/ Tips for Men
Women do like to be teased....yeah!
I checked out her website, to be honest, I hate sites like that. Visit at your own will.
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Saturday, October 29, 2011
How to Rid of a Hickey
A little ingredient for all my wanderers. This seems like a lot of strenuous work.
Man & Wife Tv: How to 69
Hehehe lol Scoop is funny.
This position is definitely a relationship move and one of my relationship favorites.
Monday, October 17, 2011
Saturday, October 15, 2011
Thursday, October 13, 2011
Exhaling...the Tender Lover again
I had to repost this video because I saw all the requests for it and then realized that Vimeo pulled it off their site, so enjoy once again.
The Art of Sex & Therapy: Exhaling..... the Tender Lover ::grin::: oh my gosh. i feel like a kid in a candy store. this vibrator is dynamic. i had to watch this video a few times. the more i watch it, th...
Monday, October 10, 2011
Curiosity: Why is Sex Fun?
This is so interesting. Thanks Discovery and mainly all the scientists behind the studies!
How to Flirt w/ a Tomboy w/ Jennifer & Dan
Im a tomboy and I must say I agree to a huge extent. I agree, in the beginning guys do cheesy things (ex: a guy sent me the cheesiest x-mas card via email; nice thought, but so unnecessary; a simple merry x-mas would have been just or a joke in a card, laughing is always good). And, umm its sorry to say, but most guys cant handle being with a tomboy (personal opinion - our honesty tends to be, well..... in the words of Jack Nicholson, "You cant handle the truth!"). My advice, if you are into a tomboy, make sure thats what you really want, then push all the games to the side, lay your cards on the table because lying is worthless, makes you look bad, and 9 of 10 we're calling your bluff (we just may not say anything just so you can dig yourself a deeper hole). Want to see a girl become distant, sell yourself as if it really matters. Huge thing, BE YOURSELF! I stress. Please be yourself because when the real you unfolds its only a mark for disaster. If you meet someone that actually gives a shit by the time of unfolding, she just may try to work around it, but that will only last for but so long. Trust. Tomboys do not chase (attutide: some may come and some may go -or- whats that other saying "they come a dime a dozen" or something like that). Lying gets two thumbs down and a LAME stamped to your forehead... your loss (another attitude of ours). Tomboys are attracted to guys who dont hide their everyday personality; guys who dont care. We are huge on accepting you for who you and nothing less. Another thing, patience is a virtue. Im sure Im missing something, but whatever.
Here's a good article: Attract a Tomboy
Here's a good article: Attract a Tomboy
Sunday, October 9, 2011
Love Does Grow on Trees by Bevan Walsh
This is awesome. I hope you enjoy this as much as I did. Briliant
Laroche Sculpts Skeletal Love
Jean-Marc Laroche brings the skeletons to life. You can check this exhibit out at the Museum of Sex
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Playboy's Wing Girls
Oh my gosh! Ok, like I wouldn't take advice from these girls, but it is a little entertaining.
Sunday, October 2, 2011
Body Markups
I can't say exactly how this relates, but..... Though I'm not a tattoo person (piercer chick), there is something quite intriguing about looking at others tattoos.
Saturday, October 1, 2011
The Importance of Breastfeeding
I stress moms breastfeed their baby, I'm sadden by mothers that don't. Hopefully, this gives you more reason to do so.
Friday, September 30, 2011
Mood Music - Cry Little Sister
There is something that tickles me about vampires, guess that's because Im a person of the night. I love vampires
Breastfeeding Men..Breastfeeding Monkey..Whats wrong with this??
Poor baby. This child is going to look back, and on a day to day basis ask their parents, "why?"
I don't even know what to say about this.
This is where my journey of disbelief started. Now, there is also a video of her breastfeeding her child at 34 months (3 yrs old). And a 5yr old... I wonder if she just likes the feeling of her titty being sucked and fondled.
I don't even know what to say about this.
This is where my journey of disbelief started. Now, there is also a video of her breastfeeding her child at 34 months (3 yrs old). And a 5yr old... I wonder if she just likes the feeling of her titty being sucked and fondled.
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Another Tantric Massage
Very interesting. Im not sure if this is Japanese or Korean, so excuse me on this one.
The Paper Penis for Women
I've had the actual video on my computer for months now and forgot was there until I started cleaning up some files (wondering why I didn't post this before). Well, I found it on youtube as everything else...... The Germans sure know how to do there numbers, but they still have some catching up to do with lets say Japan and/or China. What will inventors come up with next???
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Monday, September 19, 2011
Sunday, September 18, 2011
AskMen on G-Spot & Female Ejaculation
I'm not too crazy about her description; I'll let you be the judge of this.
Saturday, September 17, 2011
Reid: Negotiating Successful Threesomes
I went to this workshop in NY. Reid Mihalko gives an excellent seminar, so if he is ever in your town you should definitely check him. I walked out relating a lot of what he said to my everyday life that doesn't even involve sex. Its kind of crazy how sex education can convert into everyday life situation with regular relationships you have with people in general, whether it be friends or family, or even just yourself.
Repeat: I have an idea :)
Thursday, September 15, 2011
The Metrosexual Abroad
Alrighty then. This will forever be a debate. Iiiimmmm a little old school, so I'm not exactly sure what I take of this. Ok course, you should take care of yourself, but thats what eating right, nutritional balanced meals, and exercising is for. But, to each's own. Evolving.
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
Foot Fetish Lovers
This is one for all my feet lovers. There is a who series, but I liked this one the best.
Monday, September 12, 2011
Mood Music #8 - Would You Mind?
..would you???
This is by far my MOST favorite Janet Jackson song ever! A must keep mood setter. If you are into erotic, sensual, sexual settings like myself, everything about this is so right. Yessss :) I can't stop grinning. I use to have a late night radio show in college and played nothing but this music. 12am-3am, was I wrong? Or was it appropriate?
Friday, September 9, 2011
Detailed 2 Finger Technique & Proper Oral Tech
Very good...
I like how he says that...."like she has a big dick in her and she's getting fucked."
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Comparing a Relationship to a Game of War
There was a lot of controversial debate behind this video. Rafael Casal demonstrates relationship through a game of War. Who'd figure??? So, my cousin and I are here arguing, well debating a healthy conversation of what do and do not agree upon as far as the cards that were flipped by each party. Notice how they both flipped the "Sex" card. That could have possibly been my first, second, or third card flipped especially being that its been awhile ::grin:: Watch the video, tell me what you think. I am very interested to read the different comments and takes on this one.
I will say this, I enjoy getting a man's honesty view from his standpoint. Casal threw out a lot of cards that I did not expect, which as a female makes me think. Most times the male, is underestimated, or maybe I should say underrated, about how he really feels, at least coming from me. In all honesty, the assumptions need to stop. My recent motto: Going with the flow of life.
I will say this, I enjoy getting a man's honesty view from his standpoint. Casal threw out a lot of cards that I did not expect, which as a female makes me think. Most times the male, is underestimated, or maybe I should say underrated, about how he really feels, at least coming from me. In all honesty, the assumptions need to stop. My recent motto: Going with the flow of life.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Monday, September 5, 2011
Mattresses Made to Work
I figured why not have a steamy commercial series. They will come as I find them.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
My Experience Watching 3D Porn
So I won 2 tickets to see SEX AND ZEN 3D at the Village East Cinema (previously posted about this movie). Unfortunately, I was too late to get the VIP for the private viewing. Like they say, "the early bird catches the worm," well I was late lol.
If you get a chance, you may want to go and check this film out. Its quite interesting, though the subtitles move way too fast. My greatest plus was that the movie had a storyline. It was nothing like hardcore porn. And, it brought many real world issues/situations regarding relationships into play. Tips and tricks were provided ::wink-wink-smile:: You can get a lot of ideas just off these short 15 minutes, now imagine the whole film. Had I been with someone, there would have probably been some sort of fondling leading to a dip off between scenes :) One man left the theater; guess he couldn't hold back anymore.
One little warning, of the videos clips I found online, most scenes were deleted from the film, so don't look forward to viewing them in the film, unless you get a copy straight from China. I will be looking for this on dvd, so I can catch the deleted scenes. Overall, the Sex & Zen was entertaining and not overwhelming, BUT, yes there's a but, the 3d effects were overrated and the director could have left them out.
This is the clearest version I could find.
If you get a chance, you may want to go and check this film out. Its quite interesting, though the subtitles move way too fast. My greatest plus was that the movie had a storyline. It was nothing like hardcore porn. And, it brought many real world issues/situations regarding relationships into play. Tips and tricks were provided ::wink-wink-smile:: You can get a lot of ideas just off these short 15 minutes, now imagine the whole film. Had I been with someone, there would have probably been some sort of fondling leading to a dip off between scenes :) One man left the theater; guess he couldn't hold back anymore.
One little warning, of the videos clips I found online, most scenes were deleted from the film, so don't look forward to viewing them in the film, unless you get a copy straight from China. I will be looking for this on dvd, so I can catch the deleted scenes. Overall, the Sex & Zen was entertaining and not overwhelming, BUT, yes there's a but, the 3d effects were overrated and the director could have left them out.
This is the clearest version I could find.
The Oral Sex Song -- Completely Numb
She said:
Umm hmm. Sorry to say, but many and plenty of females actually feel this way. I know females who have stopped dealing with men because they are not being satisfied sexually. There's some cookies for your jar :) Think on it.
"Ive got to cum, thats for sure, but these boys are such a bore. You'd think it wouldn't be such a chore, to eat me out until I'm sore. That line makes me sound like a whore, but it is so bad to just want more from a man before I change my life and let the ladies lick my stripes. It might just end up being alright, long as I'm cummin every night.... I'm not a lesbo. I know I'm straight, but these boys might turn me gay..."
Umm hmm. Sorry to say, but many and plenty of females actually feel this way. I know females who have stopped dealing with men because they are not being satisfied sexually. There's some cookies for your jar :) Think on it.
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