The Art of Sex & Therapy: October 2011

Im a tomboy and I must say I agree to a huge extent. I agree, in the beginning guys do cheesy things (ex: a guy sent me the cheesiest x-mas card via email; nice thought, but so unnecessary; a simple merry x-mas would have been just or a joke in a card, laughing is always good). And, umm its sorry to say, but most guys cant handle being with a tomboy (personal opinion - our honesty tends to be, well..... in the words of Jack Nicholson, "You cant handle the truth!"). My advice, if you are into a tomboy, make sure thats what you really want, then push all the games to the side, lay your cards on the table because lying is worthless, makes you look bad, and 9 of 10 we're calling your bluff (we just may not say anything just so you can dig yourself a deeper hole). Want to see a girl become distant, sell yourself as if it really matters. Huge thing, BE YOURSELF! I stress. Please be yourself because when the real you unfolds its only a mark for disaster. If you meet someone that actually gives a shit by the time of unfolding, she just may try to work around it, but that will only last for but so long. Trust. Tomboys do not chase (attutide: some may come and some may go -or- whats that other saying "they come a dime a dozen" or something like that). Lying gets two thumbs down and a LAME stamped to your forehead... your loss (another attitude of ours). Tomboys are attracted to guys who dont hide their everyday personality; guys who dont care. We are huge on accepting you for who you and nothing less. Another thing, patience is a virtue. Im sure Im missing something, but whatever.