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Tahiry Talks to Her Father

Rich's Intervention

Jen's Relationship Problems

The reImaging Salon

Infatuation in Marriage

I Am A Virgin (film)

Externalising Your Feelings

About Dirty Minds w/ Kayt Sukel

Signs She May Be Cheating on You

Rob Schneider on Relationships

5 Secrets About Men

Men R From Mars Women R From Venus

Working on the Romance

How to Flirt w/ a Tomboy w/ Jennifer & Dan

Im a tomboy and I must say I agree to a huge extent. I agree, in the beginning guys do cheesy things (ex: a guy sent me the cheesiest x-mas card via email; nice thought, but so unnecessary; a simple merry x-mas would have been just or a joke in a card, laughing is always good). And, umm its sorry to say, but most guys cant handle being with a tomboy (personal opinion - our honesty tends to be, well..... in the words of Jack Nicholson, "You cant handle the truth!"). My advice, if you are into a tomboy, make sure thats what you really want, then push all the games to the side, lay your cards on the table because lying is worthless, makes you look bad, and 9 of 10 we're calling your bluff (we just may not say anything just so you can dig yourself a deeper hole). Want to see a girl become distant, sell yourself as if it really matters. Huge thing, BE YOURSELF! I stress. Please be yourself because when the real you unfolds its only a mark for disaster. If you meet someone that actually gives a shit by the time of unfolding, she just may try to work around it, but that will only last for but so long. Trust. Tomboys do not chase (attutide: some may come and some may go -or- whats that other saying "they come a dime a dozen" or something like that). Lying gets two thumbs down and a LAME stamped to your forehead... your loss (another attitude of ours). Tomboys are attracted to guys who dont hide their everyday personality; guys who dont care. We are huge on accepting you for who you and nothing less. Another thing, patience is a virtue. Im sure Im missing something, but whatever.

Here's a good article: Attract a Tomboy

My Trip to Live Group Sex Therapy w/ Daniel Packard

I went to Daniel Packard's show at the Museum of Sex last night. WARNING: If you don't show up early, the museum closes their doors. I almost didn't make it in, which is crazy when I bought a ticket in advance and I wasn't even 20 mins late. Anyway, I finally got in after minutes of phone harassment.

Flatline: Great show! It was worth the time and money. Daniel brought up a lot of key points. Anyone can attempt to deny the truth in his statements, I won't. Take note, I could become a "therapist" because I share many of his views. Only problem is I fall into at least one of his topics of discussion, which I've actually been getting better at; I have no problem with admitting my flaw, which I work on evvveryday. What is that, ummm, I'm "maturing" lol.

Anywho, if you missed the show hopefully you can catch it the next time around.  I don't want to give away too much... you should definitely experience it for yourself.

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The Live Group Sex Therapy Show

I am definitely going to one of his shows.  He is hilarious and makes a lot of sense.

Listen to him, he said, "Women talk to women, men talk to men, so there is a lack of communication between men and women." That is so true!

TV Interview of What I Do from Daniel Packard on Vimeo.

I am a woman, and I admit that everything he said feels about right, yea pretty much true, at least from my standpoint of life.

Some info:

He will be performing at the Museum of Sex through August, if anyone in the area is interested. If you go, please come back to The Art of Sex & Therapy and leave a comment or statement about your experience. I would love to know. If I make it out I will do the same, most likely in an update instead of the comment box.

Askmen.com: Is She Using You?

This definitely applies both ways.

Dont Let Women Use You

I hate when I see that white stuff on people's lips. Ill.  I just had to make a small note of that.  lol

Askmen.com: How to Recover from Relationship Mistakes

Overcome Your Relationship Mistakes

Im not to sure how I feel about this video by Askmen.com. Hiding a mistake may only make matters worse, especially if you get caught. Then, the question arises, "Well why didn't you tell me?" Uhhh....

This is a catch 22 situation and it all depends on the magnitude of the mistake you made. Some mistakes are forgivable and others are not worth forgiving. After watching this video, I'm only left to feel like these views come from a man who cheated. People mistakes and no one person is perfect, so its expected. What it all boils down to is how much your partner values your relationship. If they value the partnership, then they will see past your mistakes in hopes that you both shall grow from it.

Sounds like the real question here should be, "How do I get away with hiding a secret without getting caught?" or "I cheated, how do I get away with my girlfriend finding out?"

Remember when you lie, you have to continue lying. When you continue to lie, you have to remember the lies that you made up before. Lying is a full-time job. My advice, just be honest. Honesty strengthens relationship because it builds trust.

On that note, you will do what works best for you!

Brene Brown breaks down The Power of Vulnerability

I was going to hold off on posting this video, but I learned so much. Brene's words were a sure-line mind stimulator that made me demand myself the post, and immediately. Just felt this was on a "NEED-TO-KNOW-NOW" basis. I only wish I had watched this years ago. Plus, Brene Brown somewhat reminds me of myself, except, I may not be as organized annnnd I'm a bit of a procrastinator. I work better under pressure. Thats so bad. I would never recommend last minute.

I swear 18 minutes and 54 seconds in I felt like I was attending (which I haven't been to in ahhhh...geesh) church ::um hmm, um hmm, um hmm::

You can't selectively numb emotion. I admit I'm guilty of believing that I can. You numb joy. See, I had never considered that.  Now that I think about it, that statement has to be true because I get angry when I realize my thoughts are where I don't want them to be.  Oh, and let me reach for a bottle.. liquor really doesn't help.  It only, most definitely, addresses the issue and solves nothing.