Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label advice. Show all posts
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Friday, December 23, 2011
Tuesday, December 20, 2011
Marni on How to Talk to Women
Between practicing my school work and keeping an open ear to Marni, I realized that this video should be titled, How to Attract Women Who Like to Play Games, not What Women Want. Granted a lot of her advice makes sense, I can relate to some things, but not all. Me being me, yes, if I do not know you I cannot just open up to you and this goes around the board unless I've been drinking. Alcohol always makes me a tad bit more friendlier. Let me reiterate, Marni gives great advice, I just don't feel it appeals to the masses meaning everyone, only some. Every woman does not function this way; prime example, cultural differences. With every and anything, its all in chances hands. Whatever you do may or may not work and there is no correct way or simple answer. People are different, everyone functions differently. With that, it also depends on an individual's present circumstance and/or history (their past - experiences, etc.). Oh, let add, every women does not know what they want from a man, some are still learning, many are still learning.
Saturday, October 29, 2011
Monday, October 10, 2011
How to Flirt w/ a Tomboy w/ Jennifer & Dan
Im a tomboy and I must say I agree to a huge extent. I agree, in the beginning guys do cheesy things (ex: a guy sent me the cheesiest x-mas card via email; nice thought, but so unnecessary; a simple merry x-mas would have been just or a joke in a card, laughing is always good). And, umm its sorry to say, but most guys cant handle being with a tomboy (personal opinion - our honesty tends to be, well..... in the words of Jack Nicholson, "You cant handle the truth!"). My advice, if you are into a tomboy, make sure thats what you really want, then push all the games to the side, lay your cards on the table because lying is worthless, makes you look bad, and 9 of 10 we're calling your bluff (we just may not say anything just so you can dig yourself a deeper hole). Want to see a girl become distant, sell yourself as if it really matters. Huge thing, BE YOURSELF! I stress. Please be yourself because when the real you unfolds its only a mark for disaster. If you meet someone that actually gives a shit by the time of unfolding, she just may try to work around it, but that will only last for but so long. Trust. Tomboys do not chase (attutide: some may come and some may go -or- whats that other saying "they come a dime a dozen" or something like that). Lying gets two thumbs down and a LAME stamped to your forehead... your loss (another attitude of ours). Tomboys are attracted to guys who dont hide their everyday personality; guys who dont care. We are huge on accepting you for who you and nothing less. Another thing, patience is a virtue. Im sure Im missing something, but whatever.
Here's a good article: Attract a Tomboy
Here's a good article: Attract a Tomboy
Friday, September 30, 2011
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Monday, June 6, 2011
Askmen.com: Is She Using You?
This definitely applies both ways.
I hate when I see that white stuff on people's lips. Ill. I just had to make a small note of that. lol
I hate when I see that white stuff on people's lips. Ill. I just had to make a small note of that. lol
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
Brene Brown breaks down The Power of Vulnerability
I was going to hold off on posting this video, but I learned so much. Brene's words were a sure-line mind stimulator that made me demand myself the post, and immediately. Just felt this was on a "NEED-TO-KNOW-NOW" basis. I only wish I had watched this years ago. Plus, Brene Brown somewhat reminds me of myself, except, I may not be as organized annnnd I'm a bit of a procrastinator. I work better under pressure. Thats so bad. I would never recommend last minute.
I swear 18 minutes and 54 seconds in I felt like I was attending (which I haven't been to in ahhhh...geesh) church ::um hmm, um hmm, um hmm::
You can't selectively numb emotion. I admit I'm guilty of believing that I can. You numb joy. See, I had never considered that. Now that I think about it, that statement has to be true because I get angry when I realize my thoughts are where I don't want them to be. Oh, and let me reach for a bottle.. liquor really doesn't help. It only, most definitely, addresses the issue and solves nothing.
I swear 18 minutes and 54 seconds in I felt like I was attending (which I haven't been to in ahhhh...geesh) church ::um hmm, um hmm, um hmm::
You can't selectively numb emotion. I admit I'm guilty of believing that I can. You numb joy. See, I had never considered that. Now that I think about it, that statement has to be true because I get angry when I realize my thoughts are where I don't want them to be. Oh, and let me reach for a bottle.. liquor really doesn't help. It only, most definitely, addresses the issue and solves nothing.
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